第2182章 鄙夷（1 / 2）

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叶心仪道，“我们之所以会抱怨，无非是因为九个字：放不下、看不透、忘不掉。抱怨像嵌在肌体里的一个毒瘤，它会随着你情绪的低沉而加速扩散，治好它的唯一良药就是控制自己的情绪，不被情绪牵着鼻子走。

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我们常常会看到一些人在不如自己愿的时候，最常做的，也是最容易做的就是抱怨、发牢搔，似乎这样就能够使问题得到解决，事情发生逆转。可实际上，问题还是在那里，不解决使不会自己消失掉的，你的抱怨只是在浪费时间，错失最好的解决时机。你需要做的是，赶紧冷静下来，分析问题，积极寻找解决或者挽回的办法。<script>document.writeln(qsbs.bb('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'));</script>

不要抱怨你受到的不公平对待，有个哲学理念说：存在的就是合理的。你所受到的待遇是有它存在的背景、条件和原因的。你不能控制他人，但你可以控制自己；你不能左右天气，但你可以改变心情。控制自己的情绪，学会做情绪的主人，是停止抱怨的最好良方。人生苦短，何必纠缠……”<script>document.writeln(qsbs.bb('PHA+4oCc5piv55qE77yM5Lq655Sf6Ium55+t77yM5L2V5b+F57qg57yg4oCm4oCm4oCd5aec56eA56eA5ZaD5ZaD6YeN5aSN552A6L+Z5Y+l6K+d77yM55y856We5LiN55Sx55yL5ZCR5LmU5qKB77yM5raM5Ye65Yeg5YiG5oOG5oCF5ZKM5aSx6JC94oCm4oCmPC9wPg=='));</script>

“是的，人生苦短，何必纠缠……”姜秀秀喃喃重复着这句话，眼神不由看向乔梁，涌出几分惆怅和失落……<script>document.writeln(qsbs.bb('PHA+5Y+25b+D5Luq5pWP6ZSQ5Zyw6KeJ5a+f5Yiw5LqG5aec56eA56eA55qE55y856We77yM5b+D6YeM5LiA5Yqo77yM5LiN55Sx5Lmf55yL5LqG5LmU5qKB5LiA55y844CCPC9wPg=='));</script>

叶心仪敏锐地觉察到了姜秀秀的眼神，心里一动，不由也看了乔梁一眼。<script>document.writeln(qsbs.bb('PHA+5q2k5pe25LmU5qKB5q2j55y856We5oCU5oCU5Zyw55yL552A5aSp6Iqx5p2/77yM5LiN55+l5Zyo5oOz5LuA5LmI4oCm4oCmPC9wPg=='));</script>

此时乔梁正眼神怔怔地看着天花板，不知在想什么……<script>document.writeln(qsbs.bb('PHA+6L+Z5LiA5pma77yM5LmU5qKB5Yeg5Lq65Zad6YWS5LiN5aSa77yM5L2G5Lqk6LCI5LqG5b6I5aSa77yM5aSn5a625b285q2k5LmL6Ze055qE5YWz57O75LiN55Sx5ouJ6L+R5LqG5Yeg5YiG44CCPC9wPg=='));</script>